Did you say Orgasm?

Orgasms, Orgasms, Orgasms seem to have taken over our minds. Is this all we think about when having sex? I mean whatever happened to enjoying each other’s body parts, and taking the time to know what our partners really like. In today’s society the young adults have this thing they call the “Hit and Split”. In better terms “sex with no communication”; some of you might or might not like this idea. The simple fact is that in order to have a healthy and outstanding sex life, you must communicate with your partner. So this “Hit and Split” thing won’t work for the long run, especially if your partner doesn’t know how to give you an orgasm.

Keep in mind that an Orgasm isn’t something that has to be met when having sexual intercourse. An Orgasm is experienced when he or she is sexually excited, and the body becomes tensely stimulated with blood rushing towards the genital area. Some people have said that they’ve had tingly feelings and some woman even said they’ve felt like peeing themselves. All of these feelings are true, but don’t be alarmed if you’re not having the same feelings. (REMEMBER EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT)

Here are some ways that can help you PLEASE HER

· Blind fold her. (They say when you lose one of your senses the others become more heighten)
· Stimulate her body all over. (Try not to let your hands leave her body)
· Use your tongue, lips, and your breath. ( Be creative)
· Tell her how beautiful and sexy she is. ( A women likes to feel wanted)
· Use clitoral stimulation lubrication's
· Fiddle with her breast ( using fingers, tongue, and lips)
· Kiss in-between her thighs

Here are some ways that can help you PLEASE HIM

· Blind fold him. (They say when you lose one of your senses the others become more heighten)
· Be aggressive and assertive. (A man likes a women that knows what she’s doing)
· Create an atmosphere that she feels safe and comfortable with taking off her clothes.
· Use your tongue, lips, and hot air from your breath.
· Groom his penis with your hand. ( Keep in mind that the head of the penis is the most sensitive)
· Try using edible lubrication when giving oral sex. ( Favourable and fun)
· Suck on his testicles and massage them gently.

-Be you, ask questions, and have fun-
Impending Sexologist-Star